Two friends… two angels… June Grossberg, owner of “Concepts in Yarn and Needlepoint” and her very good friend Leslye Borden together champion a program to help turn around the lives of abused women and children through a highly successful volunteer effort called “Handmade Especially for You”. The self esteem of battered souls is often so low they honestly believe an abusive lifestyle is what they deserve.
Enter the “Comfort Scarf”. In 2008 Leslye Borden started knitting sox and hats for underprivileged and abused kids across the country. Her love of knitting evolved into the “Handmade Especially for You”. Later that year she approached June, looking for a sponsor. June offered her shop for the “Knitting Club” and asked her suppliers to donate to the cause. Yarn manufacturers get their name out to potential customers, June’s store gets more business, knitters have a quiet place to create, Leslye’s project gets the support it needs and escapees from abuse are assisted - everybody wins.
Day after day heaps of soft yarn in every conceivable color and design appear on Leslye’s doorstep. Some donors are known, some anonymous; some private while others are in the business. The main contributions come from distributors like Trendsetter Yarns, Crystal Palace Yarns and Knitting Fever Yarns though at least another twenty manufacturers participate. Leslye winds the yarn into skeins and artistically combines several colors into individual ‘kits’ each containing a total of 100 yards (300 feet) to make one 4-5” wide, 60” long scarf. Volunteers use an open-weave stitch to knit numerous pieces and drop them into the donation box at the store. Leslye then sends them to shelters throughout California, helping create chapters around the country. It sounds fun but there is a serious side and a lot of work is involved, not unlike allies in the underground. It is important to have dependable, dedicated knitting members and the need for steady yarn supply is paramount.
The program is built on the healing psychology of gifting and has been proven to start victims on a road to a better life. Some of the women who receive one of the ‘gifts’ have never before been given anything that was just for them; the impact of a stranger donating time, effort, creativity and compassion has a deep and positive effect on their psyches. Many embark on a quest to seek a more nurturing environment for themselves and their children.
Crochet Magazine (crochetmagazine.com) published an article about “Handmade Especially for You” in their October 2009 “Talking Crochet Newsletter” and the response was overwhelming! People all over the States wanted to participate in this volunteer movement. Case in point: Peggy Bomba of Craig, Colorado read about Leslye’s efforts and was inspired to include “Comfort Scarves” in her classes at the Craig-Moffat County Jail where she has taught crocheting for over two years. These incarcerated women, often themselves victims of violence, frequently react to life in an aggressive manner, yet they now crochet scarves for other women in need. The work is calming and the fighting has stopped. Peggy has broadened her endeavors to include other causes and more volunteers – even men enjoy the handiwork! To date, she has sent two shipments of scarves to Leslye. It seems the term ‘corrections’ has taken on a renewed meaning: transformation. It’s a huge step towards healing ones self image. Examples like this prove that the work is worth the effort and the reward, immeasurable.
Crisis centers everywhere need continued assistance from the outside world to demonstrate to victims escaping abuse that life can be different - better. This last Christmas the ‘Scarf Project’ answered that need; the goal was 2,000 scarves yet the two partners were pleased to receive over 2,500 in time for the holiday delivery, a total of 6,500 for the year! They deliver the finished scarves to home offices of the shelters, keeping the safe-house’s actual locations hidden.
Leslye’s success with “Handmade” has been helped by June Grossberg through her store “Concepts in Yarn and Needlepoint”. June supports the “Comfort Scarf” drive by donating her shop and time so volunteers can come in and knit for the project, free of charge. Every Wednesday evening from 5:00 to 8:00pm about eight to twelve volunteers from Palos Verdes, Torrance and Redondo arrive with knitting needles in hand, pick up a free, pre-measured kit and enjoy the evening’s ‘girl time’ while they create a link of love to their less fortunate sisters. Other knitters who choose to craft theirs at home can pick up kits at the shop. June supplies two bins: one for Leslye’s kits and one for finished scarves. Leslye picks up the finished work and tags each one, signed by its maker. Finally, a non-knitting volunteer wraps each scarf with a brightly colored ribbon, ready for the next delivery batch.
The store “Concepts in Yarn and Needlepoint” is located at the end of Via Valmonte on Hawthorne Blvd. in the Hillside Plaza and normal business hours are 10:00am to 5:00pm, though open until 8:00pm on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. June carries many scrumptious yarn varieties in her shop imported from foreign manufacturers primarily Italy, Japan and Turkey. American manufacturers are not producing designer yarns at this time, but it is a growing industry. Hand dyed silks, Alpaca, Cashmere, Merino sheep’s wool, fibers made from soy milk, Kapok, corn and organics for soft baby items; colors, textures and designs are enough to make you drool! Patterns, buttons, notions and needlepoint supplies all vie for space in this cozy wonderland and if you still can’t get enough there are classes in crocheting, needlepoint and knitting, custom work and Ghost Knitters are available.
Abuse is not exclusive and can appear at any stage in life. It crosses all lines of society; age, race, education, creed and monetary circumstances. Addressing domestic violence involves us all - those in need and those that can fill the need; sometimes the boundaries are blurred. Volunteers are taking up the cause and knitting circles are spreading with new chapters in San Diego, one in Naples, Florida, one in the making in Seattle and approximately fifteen others throughout the country. To learn more about the scarf project, read Leslye’s monthly newsletter on her website at:http://www.handmadeespecially.org
By the way, if you don’t know what a Ghost Knitter is, I can only tell you that it is so secret you’ll have to visit the shop to ask… and bring your knitting needles!

